Connecting emotionally is an important way you can build a relationship with the people you serve with your small business services and products. Forming this relationship not only makes their experience more fulfilling, but it also helps to keep you attached to the purpose of your work. That’s because the best ways to connect emotionally with your audience is to show people experiencing authentic emotions that trigger mirror neurons for those observing them or to tell a story.

Finding ways to hone in on genuine experiences to share or tracing a story from the work you do lets people in on why what you do matters, and if you are like most small business owners, it also gives you a breath of fresh air and reminds you of why all those tasks that are piling up in the notes section of your phone are actually for.

Let’s imagine you’ve been gifted a free meal with your favorite person. You have been given two options: a fine dining experience at a new fancy restaurant with several courses or, alternatively, two combos at your favorite fast food place. Play out both of those options in your mind. Which one makes you feel more fully nourished?

I’d bet that while you might have a great time eating with good people at Chipotle, the fine dining experience likely seems more appealing overall. Part of the reason this may be true is that the fine dining option stimulates several areas of our brains. It’s new, which sparks our attention. The person we are with is safe and the thought of being with them and experiencing something new together stirs up the emotional parts of our brains. And lastly, the idea of dining at a fancy restaurant brings with it the possibility for higher levels of learning. It makes us feel a little curious about what we may discover about food itself.

Attention, Emotion, and Cognitive Curiosity. These are the three aspects of the human brain that want to be fed well. As a small business, recognize that each component has its value and use good marketing to serve your customers up a three course meal they will appreciate and remember.